3.50 gears would probably be perfect for you, they're not bad at all on the highway...and the acceleration would be MUCH better. Something to think about anyhow.
The offy intake would be far better than what you have, although, for 75$ you could take a poke around on ebay and pick up an rpm from edelbrock maybe.
As far as the headers...you can EASILY pick up a used set for 50$ or so. Try ebay, and
www.craigslist.org (pick your city or one nearby) in the auto parts section. I'm sure you'll find something well within a reasonable price. Then a couple slip fit collector adapters for your existing exhaust, and you're running longtubes on the cheap! Or you could pay a shop to adapt your exhaust...they're usually pretty reasonable.
Anyhow, just some suggestions!
Cris