This is what I fabbed ...
Sounds like you have your fabrication skills in hand but this is what I did.
I started with a plate which fits directly onto the factory pedistal position in the cross member.
I installed bolts/studs into the plate so it bolts to the factory holes in the crossmember.
I installed a section of thick wall steel tube onto the motor mount cross-bolt.
I then used 3/16" steel plate to fab up what you see in the PIC ...
The way these work the motor mount rests on the pedistal so the bolt itself is not supporting the weight of the motor.
These can be easily removed if anyone wanted to return the car to a factory style motor mount situation.